A GUIDE TO SEX TOYS

Entering the world of sex toys can feel daunting. With hundreds of options to choose from, and many that look too intimidating or complex to try out, hesitations around putting foreign objects into your body is understandable!

But the world of sex toys is also a fascinating one. As adults, we do not need to grow out of playful curiosity, and sex toys allow us to explore our bodies and experience sensations of pleasure unlike anything we have felt before. 

Here is a short guide to the various types of sex toys available on the market.

VIBRATORS

Vibrators bring enjoyment through vibration patterns and can be used on various parts of the body, the most pleasurable being the clitoris. They can come in the form of small bullets, large wands, and ones that use suction. A vibrator is a great toy for beginners. There are vibrators that can be used with your partner and those that are remote controlled. Most vibrators have different speeds and frequencies that you can adjust to find the one that you enjoy the most. Vibrators can be battery operated or rechargeable and many are waterproof. 

DILDOS

A dildo is a phallic shaped toy that you insert inside your vagina or anus. They come in many sizes and include electronic ones that vibrate or thrust with the press of a button. There are also combinations of vibrator and dildo such as the Rabbit, which has a part you insert into your vagina and a part for your clitoris. Make sure to use lots of lubricant with dildos to minimise any discomfort and maximise pleasure. 

ANAL TOYS

The anal region is one that many people enjoy experimenting with due to its abundance of nerve endings that make it so sensitive, and there are toys that are specifically designed to fit and stimulate it. These include anal beads, butt plugs, and anal dildos that vary in size and material including glass, silicone and stainless steel. Make sure to use ample lubricant during anal play and be thorough with hygiene and cleanliness. 

FOR USE WITH PARTNERS

Not just for solo play, there are many sex toys designed to be used with a partner, for both heterosexual and queer couples. These include strap-on dildos, double-ended dildos, couple vibrators and remote-controlled vibrators. 

ACCESSORIES

There are different things that can intensify sexual pleasure by heightening all the senses. Depending on which senses you want to play around with, you could experiment with blindfolds, feathers, handcuffs, and costumes. For a sensual experience you could incorporate silky lingerie, chocolates and desserts and intoxicating smells such as scented candles and perfumes. 

IMPROVISING -

Truth be told, a lot of these products are not easily available in Nepal. If you are improvising normal household objects for pleasure, please make sure that you sanitise them thoroughly and that you are not using any dangerous materials such as glass. Some good ideas include running water from a water spray or showerhead, the bristles of a toothbrush, ice cubes and sanitised fruits or vegetables. 

ALWAYS REMEMBER -

·        Slowly increase your comfort level with toys. Don’t use too much pressure inserting things until your body relaxes.

·        Invest in good quality lubricant and use plenty of it. If you do not have access to proper lubricant, baby oil and coconut oil are good substitutes.

·        If using toys with partners, clearly communicate what you enjoy and what you don’t. Make sure your partner respects your sexual boundaries. Many people find using pre-discussed ‘safe words’ helpful which allows you to say ‘no’ or ‘stop’ without using those words specifically.

·        Allow yourself the freedom to play around and experiment. They are called toys for a reason. Try different ones out and see which one is your favourite.

AVAILABILITY OF SEX TOYS IN NEPAL

With the growing conversation about pleasure, the availability of sex toys in Nepal has been increasing as well. We can buy sex toys in Nepal via various online platforms and offline platform. The following are the few online platforms from where we can buy sex toys in Nepal:

Online Platforms

1.     Daraz Nepal

https://www.daraz.com.np/sexual-sensual-toys/

2.     Nice and Naughty

https://www.nicennaughty.com.np/

3.     Sex Toys in Nepal

https://sex-toys-in-nepal.business.site/

Offline Platforms

We can find offline shops to buy sex toys openly in the market these days, you can find numerous places which sells various type of pleasure toys.