Pre-mature ejaculation
Can one control pre-mature
ejaculations?
There are two phenomena that
one must be familiar with in relation to male sexual arousal. The first event
in the course of the arousal is the erection of the penis, which means that the
penis (male external sexual organ) fills with blood and becomes straight,
seemingly enlarging because of it. The next event is the contraction of the penile
muscles causing semen (containing sperm) to be forced out of the tip. This
action is called ejaculation and up to 5 spurts of semen can be ejaculated out
during a single act of sexual stimulation.
The topic phenomenon discussed
in this article is concerned with the act of ejaculation. Pre-mature
ejaculation as the name suggests means early ejaculation. Here, early means
ejaculation occurring within 1 to 3 minutes of penile penetration or simply
before the patient wishes/feels ready.
Males experiencing premature
ejaculations often suffer from a sense of distress or frustration which may
make the individual want to avoid all forms of sexual intimacy. However, it is
important to note that the condition is very common with 30-40% of people going
through it at some point in their life. It is manageable and this article aims
to reassure this.
How does one know that they are
experiencing Pre-mature ejaculation?
Many people may feel that they have early
ejaculation, but occasional instances are perfectly normal and the criteria for
premature ejaculation would not be met. In order for the diagnosis to be made,
the following points must be present:
1. Ejaculation cannot be delayed
beyond 3 minutes of penetration
2. This must be true for greater
than or equal to 75% of the ejaculations the person experiences.
If this happens during
masturbation, it is considered the same as penetration. The condition may be
lifelong, persisting from the first sexual interaction, or acquired in the
middle of one’s sexual life after a period of normal ejaculation.
What may be causing this condition?
It is said that a mix of
emotional/psychological and biological factors play a role in the causation.
The emotional factors may be:
- Depression, stress
- Guilt
- -
History of negative or traumatic sexual interaction- -
Unrealistic expectations from sex
- -
Relationship problems.
While contributing biological
factors may be:
-
Imbalance in hormone levels
-
Genetic causes (from genes passed down through
parents)
-
Infection in the prostate or urethra (pipe through
which semen passes)
What to do if you suspect you or
a loved one experiences Pre-Mature ejaculation?
The most important step is to
remember that the condition is common and manageable, but it requires
consistency and patience. If you have a permanent partner, it would be
beneficial to visit the doctor with your partner alongside you. Answer the
questions asked by the doctor truthfully and commit yourself to getting better
in a healthy way! Almost 90% of people get better with behavioral interventions
and counseling. You might need to get some tests done to rule out any
biological causes or take the necessary medication for management.