Hookup Culture and Safe Sex

Hookup Culture and Safe Sex

- by Prativa

Despite being a topic not openly discussed in our community, the rise of hookup culture among the new generation is certainly prominent. Hookup culture is typically defined as a casual sexual relationship where physical pleasure takes priority, and traditional strings of dating usually do not follow, as it does not involve long-term commitments. This culture allows individuals, especially those with relatively limited experience or those not seeking anything long-term, to explore their sexual interests and understand their needs. It has normalized engaging in sexual activity without the pressure of committing to someone for the rest of their lives.

However, given the ease with which one can become involved with anyone they are sexually attracted to, the importance of being aware and practicing safe sex becomes equally paramount. Despite the perception of hookups as brief and detached encounters, it is crucial to establish mutual respect among involved partners. This involves prioritizing consent, using contraceptives such as condoms, and fostering open communication not only about sexual desires and preferences but also about getting tested and prevention from sexually transmitted infections.

As a generation normalising having sex with strangers after a brief exchange of conversation, it becomes a moral collective responsibility to also normalise discussions about practicing safe sex. All adults over the age of 18 who are sexually active and participate in hookups should undergo comprehensive screening for sexually transmitted infections. Additionally, they should schedule regular visits to gynecologists or urologists at least once a year, providing a transparent sexual history during these visits.

Casual sex has become a means of escape for individuals from their other aspects of everyday life, and if you wish to indulge in this escapade, the doctor visits have to become a part of your routine to make the escape stress-free. It is also worth noting that you should brace yourself emotionally, as there is a significant chance of developing an attachment to your sexual partner. 

Condoms and regular screening could safeguard you biologically, but it would be harder to stay protected from the roller coaster of emotions and the consequent toll on your mental health. Sex is amazing, and the feel-good neurotransmitters released by the brain after orgasm definitely makes it a whole lot better. But, it could become tricky differentiating between sexual desires and romantic desires with hookups, and if not able to balance efficiently, it could lead to trauma, depressive symptoms and feelings of loneliness. 

Opinions on hookup culture vary, and the extent of exploration is a personal choice. Regardless of your stance, there is nothing wrong if you seek to indulge in one, just hold your consent and contraceptive close, emotional awareness closer, and enjoy the varieties it offers!